While we have never spoken, and while you may not know me, and while I know it is of little solice to you and your family at this time... please accept my most sincere condolences for you and your family.

The loss of a loved one is one of the most difficult things in life I think we face (I lost a sister years ago), please know that he... as well as all of your family have my most humble gratitude and respect for his commitment to service in protecting our nation.

If there is anything I can do for you, please do not hesitate to call upon me.

Coyote,
I echo the sentiments of milady Maihvayn above. I send to you my sincere condolences and also my deep and undying respect to your brother for his service to our country.
With my sincerest sympathies,
Oakkeeper of the Sons of the Wolf